Will Today's Blog Post Be Funny or Sad?
My website is a personal site presented from my point of view as an empty nest parent (yep, that's me sitting in a gigantic nest at the Phoenix Zoo!). I started it the day after my youngest daughter went to college and the house was officially empty of children. I wanted to explore my feelings not just about this new status but also write about all the ideas that fill this head of mind, with the hopes that I might possibly be able to sleep through the night once my thoughts were spilled out on the site! It's been an emotional roller coaster and the words that have followed have also had their ups and downs.....................
In the end, there are two distinctly different types of posts that have gotten my readers talking and sharing:
- The heart-wrenching posts about missing my children and trying to fill their void brings my audience of other empty nest people to my rescue. Or they are experiencing the same feelings and are looking for camaraderie and/or advice. I have no control when these lonely days will occur and they cannot be forced into my foreground, therefore, the posts come out naturally and in rhythm with my heart. I almost feel obligated to write on these days but its also quite therapeutic for me. (I recommend writing either in a blog or diary to many of my readers). But, I am also glad that after three years of being an empty nester, I don't have these emotional days as often as I once did, because they are exhausting. I wish you could see me.....I am typing and crying and usually want to nap afterwards. Or have a big glass of wine!
- The second category are when I am feeling a little whacky. A little wicked. A little sarcastic. The topics are all over the place....maybe my husband doesn't read my blog, maybe I am heavy and my pants have split in the middle of a meeting or maybe I am laughing about our political system. The common denominator is they all are humorous and many other people in my "shoes" can relate or have had the same thing happen to them. Laughing at ourselves and common occurrences bonds the writer/reader and we laugh together...through the internet. Everyone needs a good laugh. I cannot always write these types of posts; the ideas seem to come out of thin air or......they don't. It's best not to try to be funny when you're not thinking funny. (Of course, I cannot seem to find one single example of me trying...unsuccessfully....to be funny. That's funny, isn't it!)
- Finally, sometimes I just feel like writing on a serious matter or about politics. This is dangerous territory because, really, no one reads posts that have opposing views with an open mind. So, I am just writing for myself. Which, in itself, is not a bad exercise in itself. Just don't expect to learn anything from the process. Negative comments can be hurtful, too. They just aren't my cup of tea. (Warning, never write a guest post for the Cubs on a Cardinal's fan page......you will learn 4000 new ways to say go f**k yourself!)
- Today's writing exercise was interesting....it was fun to think about my blog and why and what I write about. Thanks for suggesting it!